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California Family Law: How Do I Find a Divorce Lawyer?

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by Vanessa Soto Nellis

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For many people thinking about divorce, the question of how to find a divorce lawyer can be as stressful as deciding to get married in the first place, or whether or not to take a job across the country.

Aggressive Divorce LawyerIt's no wonder. Divorce will cost you money in the short run – but your future, as well as your children's future, will also depend on how adept your attorney is with handling you, your spouse and the legal matters.

Here are three factors you should consider when hiring a divorce attorney:


Do you want a "bulldog" divorce lawyer?


Think again. Your attorney should care about you enough to listen to you and then explain your options in an understandable way. You want someone who not only garners respect from you, but also the respect of opposing counsel and judges. If s/he is argumentative or unnecessarily aggressive – that  just causes more conflict, which will cost you more money. Most clients prefer a solution-focused advocate.

You'll also want an attorney you feel comfortable with simply because you'll need to reveal highly personal information. If you can't explain your situation fully, the attorney can't represent you at full capacity. 


How much does a divorce cost?


Hidden Assets DivorceHere in Los Angeles, there's a full spectrum of fees (usually about $100-800 per hour in Los Angeles, plus expenses) depending on the experience of the attorney, and his or her reputation and professional ratings. Most family law attorneys require several thousands of dollars as an upfront retainer, which serves as security for their fees.

A Los Angeles divorce can cost you several thousand to hundreds of thousands of dollars. It depends on how complex your situation is, how organized you are in providing financial records, and whether or not you and your spouse can compromise.

If you and your spouse can be reasonable, my colleagues and I recommend divorce mediation to keep your costs down and resolve your matter quickly. Read my blog, Divorce in Los Angeles – 5 Things You'll Need to Know for more information.


What do you get in a divorce?


Be careful here, of hiring a divorce lawyer who tells you what you want to hear instead of giving you an honest opinion of what you, or you and your children, may be entitled to.

Ultimately a family law court will make the final decision. A good divorce attorney will know California family law inside and out, and will honestly tell you what you can expect and why.

Your divorce attorney should also know the judges in your jurisdiction, and the styles in which they run their courtrooms. There's nothing worse than hiring a disorganized lawyer who goes before a judge with little patience for wasting time. This could affect the final judgment, and cost you more in the long run.


These are the main factors to consider when hiring a divorce lawyer. Don't be afraid to ask questions in the initial consultation – the way the attorneys respond will give you a better idea of who is the best fit for you.


Vanessa Soto Nellis is a Divorce and Divorce Mediation Attorney in our Family Law Practice Group. Contact her via email:

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Divorce in Los Angeles - 5 Things You'll Need to Know




by Vanessa Soto Nellis




If you’re looking for CA divorce lawyers you may be wondering how you got to this point in the first place. 

What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility,” according to psychologist George Levinger. In short, marriage is a difficult union.

And while many of us spend years in school learning how to solve problems in our chosen career, we rarely learn how to solve problems with a spouse. In fact, most people enter into marriage without any training as to how to problem solve, manage stress, or communicate effectively with a life partner. And that could cost a lot of time, money and emotional pain in the long run.

It’s no surprise that many married people have entertained the thought of divorce at some point in their marriage. And what do they want to know?

Some of the top questions people seeking a California dissolution of marriage often ask a divorce attorney in Los Angeles generally concern how long it will take and the average cost of divorce: 


 1. How Much Do CA Divorce Lawyers Charge?   

Divorce LawDivorce is an expensive and time consuming process. A divorce attorney in Los Angeles generally charges between $150 and $600 per hour. The average cost of divorce can easily run $25,000, but it depends on the parties and their issues. Average CA family law attorney retainers range from $2,000 to $50,000.

The court filing fee, about $400, starts the divorce process in California. You and your ex-partner must fill out paperwork, file it with the court, and serve it. Then you’ll need to fill out forms indicating all of your assets, debts, income, and expenses. You’ll have to serve those forms too. Here’s how costs can rise:

  • Uncooperative Spouses - Nearly every case involves a fact finding process in which each party is required to answer questions and produce documents. If your spouse does not cooperate with the process, that can drive up the costs of divorce in California or anywhere else for that matter.

  • Unresolved Issues - If the parties are unable or unwilling to reach agreements to resolve issues, then the parties must ask a judge to make a decision, which is time consuming and therefore, costly. For example, if you and your ex disagree about custody of children, the California divorce process gets very expensive as an expert may be called in to give the court information at the parties’ expense.

  • Disorganization - A divorce attorney in Los Angeles and anywhere else will charge clients for her time. Attorneys charge clients for preparing for court (drafting documents, gathering information, filing the documents, serving the documents, reviewing the file in advance of a hearing), traveling to court, appearing in court, and then preparing any orders that result from a court hearing.
    Attorneys need information from clients to effectively represent them. It’s best to gather all of the information, organize it, and deliver it to your Los Angeles divorce lawyer in one bundle.


How Long Does a California Divorce Take? 

There is a six month waiting period in order to obtain a judgment of divorce which starts when the other side is served with divorce papers. It is interesting that there is no waiting period prior to getting married, but to get out of a marriage, the state ensures that you have thoroughly thought about your decision. Obtaining a divorce is typically a long process.  


3. How Can I Lower the Average Cost of My Divorce?

The best recommendation a divorce attorney can make for controlling costs is mediation. Mediation involves two parties sitting down with a neutral, experienced CA divorce lawyer to:

The mediator does not represent either you or your ex-partner, but assists you both in arriving at an agreement consistent with California law.   

Although therapists and other well-intentioned professionals can serve as mediators, it’s best that separating partners use an experienced divorce attorney who is well-versed in state family law. If you and your ex reach an agreement that isn’t properly put in writing, it may not be enforceable – thereby causing future headaches. Document your agreement in accordance with California law.

Mediation is ideal for two individuals who are serious about resolving their dissolution issues, and willing to make compromises so that they can move forward with their lives. The biggest benefit of mediation is that it allows each of you to be directly involved in the dissolution process and minimizes the average cost of divorce. Attorneys typically take smaller retainers for mediations. 


4. How Do I Choose a CA Divorce Lawyer?


It is important that you feel comfortable working with your family law attorney, and that you are able to communicate. You want a lawyer who understands your goals for your divorce and is able to execute them. Most clients interview more than one divorce attorney in Los Angeles before selecting one. Some lawyers offer free initial consultations, while others charge flat fees or hourly rates.

Many times I hear from prospective clients that they want “a bull dog attorney.” Usually when I explain that taking a very aggressive approach to a case is the more expensive option, they reconsider, because most clients prefer saving money at the end of a divorce.

Also, litigation can emotionally drain you and your family. Sometimes it is necessary to behave aggressively. However, effective advocacy is usually determined by the substance of your information, not only the delivery. In California, spouses have fiduciary duties to one another so game-playing is not effective over the long term. In fact, the Court can penalize you for failing to cooperate with the divorce process.

The divorce attorney you select should be experienced in handling family law matters. Otherwise, you risk paying someone to learn on your dime. Worse, if the family law attorney you hire is inexperienced, you may be paying for a long time. You may also be at a disadvantage if your attorney does not exclusively handle family law matters.


5. How Can I Keep My Attorney Fees Down?


  • Organize. Make a list of questions and ask them all at once, instead of calling multiple times. Most family law attorneys charge in quarter of the hour or ten minute increments.

  • Clarify. Answer your divorce lawyers’ questions in an organized and detailed fashion.

  • Compromise.  If you are able to reach agreements with your ex-partner, that will minimize your costs as well.


Remember, if you and your ex-partner are willing to talk, you can both save time and money during your divorce. Our family law attorneys at Lewitt Hackman will help you mediate.


Vanessa Soto Nellis, Esq. is a Los Angeles Divorce Attorney and Shareholder at the Firm. Please contact Ms. Nellis at 818.907.3274 if you have questions or need help with California family law matters.

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